Monday 30 November 2015

Why Writers need R&R…

Recently, my hubby and I just got back from vacation. We went on a Caribbean cruise for our 30th Anniversary—a trip that had been on our bucket list for such a long time. We also spent a couple of nights in New Orleans—love the energy and party atmosphere down there! This was also the first long vacation we took together (read: no kids in tow) in twenty-five years. Um, yeah. You read that right. Twenty-five years? That’s like 175 in dog years!

In the past, vacations were usually centered around family. We journeyed to our cottage with our son or camped up north with our daughters. Ah, the good old days of black flies and mosquitoes! That said, when you own a vacation home, you really become popular to family, friends, and long-lost relatives, especially in the hot, summer months. But when it’s time to pull in the boats and docks or put away garden furniture for the colder seasons, you can’t see their butts through the dust. Wink.

My writing seemed to flow with the seasons too. I’d wrap up stories and schedule a pile of blog posts by the end of June in anticipation for school wrapping up, the hot weather, and onslaught of summer guests. Although I loved seeing family and friends, it wasn’t much of a ‘vacation’ for me. You know what I mean. Someone has to cook, clean, fetch drinks, feed the pets, wash the clothes, grocery shop while others are sitting on the dock, sunning themselves with a cold one. By mid-October, I was finally back in my writing groove, working on the next novel, doing research, or picking up where I left off with my story. Oh, and don’t forget about all the book promotion and marketing an author has to do. No wonder many writers burn out!

I believe 2015 was my turnaround year—click HERE to read the full story. Every writer needs a year that shakes up things like one of those snow globes until everything settles and you can see clearly. What I saw was one stressed-out author who barely kept it together. We writers can only do so much. We need down time just as much as a doctor or accountant or a plumber. Vacations are meant to recharge us, take us away from our same old routines. We all need a period of renewal to calm our minds and rejuvenate our bodies. Play time is just as important as work time, even if you can get away for only a few days.

I found it - the 7th Arch of Atlantis!
Since I’ve returned, I feel renewed and relaxed, and certain things don’t bother me as much. I even unplugged from my phone during the entire seven day cruise. Egad! And you know what? Life went on, and the world didn’t stop turning because I wasn’t tweeting or sharing. Being away from my keyboard also gave me a fresher perspective on my work-in-progress too, and I was able sit down with no distractions and make a plan for the rest of the year. I’d forgotten why I started writing in the first place—yes I want to supplement my income (what writer doesn’t?), but also want to follow my dream, and do what makes me happy. And isn’t that why we’re all here on Earth in the first place?

So what about you? Do you have any plans for a vacation in the future? Are you ready to unplug and relax? Would love to hear your comments! Cheers and thank you for reading my blog!

11 comments:

  1. You read my mind. My husband just finished a big job with a big pay day. I helped him out a lot and we even worked on my birthday and that was beyond all my writing work and doing the outside chores that needed done by myself because he was so busy. I left the plan up to him so we're going away to a resort for some hot tubs, long walk, a little casino and some nice dinners that someone else cooks. And like you, no kids!
    Take your deserved break

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    1. Yay, you! Hope you have a blast, Susan! You're a hard working writer and deserve it! Hugs and have one for me! LOL! Cheers!

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  2. Good for you! A cruise or an all inclusive resort is a great way for the lady of the house to unwind.

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    1. Totally agree, Onisha! I believe I'm ready for another vacation. LOL!

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  3. Sharon--your post came at the right time. I'm so glad you took some time away to relax. I told my husband tonight that I suddenly decided to take it easy for December. Doesn't mean I won't write, but I don't want to feel so DRIVEN. I feel burned out and tired and, like you, need some time to recharge to start the new year. So thanks for sharing, and I'm so glad we've gotten to know each other.

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    1. Glad the timing was perfect, Jan! Sometimes just making the decision to take it easy and relax a little makes a difference. So happy we connected and got to know each other better too! Now, go put your feet up! Wink.

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  4. I´m so glad you had this well deserved vacation. It is the best way to refuel! I get my best ideas while we are travelling. Where in the Caribbean did you go? We have been on a few cruises there and loved everyone. (So many don´t realize that mom doesn´t really get a vacation on a family holiday!)

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    1. Thanks, Darlene! We went to Roatan, Belize and Cozumel. Loved the countries and the people! Cheers and hugs for stopping by!

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  5. Glad you had a wonderful trip and happier that you're recharged and ready to go.:)

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    1. Hugs and thanks, Sloane! Seems like a while now and want to go again! Cheers!

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